Showing posts with label fetish. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fetish. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

TOP 10 MOST COMMON FETISHES! WHATS YOUR SEXUAL FETISH?


Do you have a Sexual Fetish? What is your Fetish? Do you know what an erotic fetish is ? Did you know there where different types of fetishism?

Sexual fetishism, is a sexual attraction to objects, body parts, or situations not conventionally viewed as being sexual in nature. This means you could be aroused by objects or body parts or even clothes. Different textures, materials, shapes etc.

A fetish is something that you need, to be aroused that is unconventional, different, precise. A few examples are feet fetish, role playing, costumes, a person who, for instance, must hold a baseball, wear a diaper, be hurt, inflict pain or have a non-consenting partner in order to reach sexual gratification. When you masturbate, you fantasize about that particular thing. Even if you have sex with a partner, you still need to fantasize about that object or have it present for you to get off. For instance, if you're attracted to brunettes, that's one thing, but if you are unable to get aroused unless you're with a brunette, then you likely have a fetish for brunettes.

You can find many fetishes on the internet, some you would never have thought of and some that make you curious. Different types of fetishes and websites that seduce those needs exists in many different forms.

There is what they call "spiritual love" or "plastic love" both are fetishes but not of the same nature. What they call spiritual love is a devotion for a specific mental phenomena such as social class, or occupational roles. For example if a woman melts everytime she sees a man in uniform and only gets aroused when her partner wears one then her fetish is in the "spiritual love" category. If you only get aroused by looking at asian woman this also falls into that category. You then have what we call "plastic love" which is described as a devotion towards material objects such as animals, body parts, garments, textures or even shoes. For example, if you get hot over a pair of panties or when you see a girls feet than you would fall into this category.
Some fetishes are more common than others. You might find out that one of your sexual fantasies might be a fetish. Here are the top 10 most common fetishes.

Number 10

sexual fetish of the stomach Stomachs
Men and women both agreed that taut tummies make them somewhat crazy. But others said that they would never bed a potential partner if their tummies protruded or hung loosely.
Some guys weren't as picky and admitted that they liked it when a woman had a tummy with a teensy-weensy little pot. One gentleman was very adamant about needing to release himself on a woman's stomach or his experience simply wouldn't be pleasurable.

Number 9

Titty Piercing Body Piercings
This one was quite popular with the younger crowd (18-35). Everything from bellybuttons, tongues and nipples to eyebrows and penises was not only acceptable, but for a specific few, it was a prerequisite.
One guy told us that he loves tongue rings because after being pleasured by a girl who had one, he couldn't go back to the "ordinary." The feeling of the cool object rubbing against his penis while her hot mouth engulfed him "felt like heaven."

Number 8

Leather, rubber, vinyl, latex Leather, rubber, vinyl, latex
Men seem to love material; perhaps not the actual feel of it, but the rather pornographic quality it gives to a sexual encounter. Although men look to settle down with a sweet woman, most will forever have a fixation with that "bad girl" look.
"Watching a woman move around in anything tight and shiny is a tease in itself," says one gentleman. Another man told me that his girlfriend's entire wardrobe consists of latex and leather. Shoes, boots, gloves, pants, shorts, dresses, anything with the texture.
I personally own a few latex pieces and of course many leather ones. This fetish is one of the ones i have encountered the most in my webcaming experience.

Number 7

Domination and submission Domination and submission
women said they love to order their men around in bed like slaves and spank them, smack them, and even penetrate them with a strap-on.
Guys, on the other hand, enjoy submitting to women and being told what to do. I guess most of them are probably tired of performing all the time. Everything I mentioned that the women do -- well, the men enjoy having those things done to them. Welcome to the new millennium.
Dominance and submission (also called D&s, Ds, and D/s) is a set of behaviors, customs and rituals involving the giving by one individual to another individual of control over them in an erotic episode or as a lifestyle. A safe word is usually given to the submissive partner to prevent the dominant from overstepping physical and emotional boundaries. The safe word is especially important when engaging in verbal humiliation or playing 'mind-games' because the submissive may not be aware of an emotional boundary until it is crossed.

Number 6

More on feet and hand fetishes Feat and hands
You knew this fetish was coming didn't you? Men enjoy licking, sucking, kissing, and biting women's feet almost exclusively. Some guys simply can't date a woman if she has ugly feet or toes.
Women, I was surprised to learn, love to suck on men's fingers and some can even orgasm off that alone. "There's something about pleasuring a man's finger as though it was a penis that gives me orgasmic pleasure," said one woman from Seattle.
The two divisions of foot fetishism are sexual and non-sexual. Sexual foot fetishism is when one achieves sexual arousal, even to the point of climax, when seeing or touching a foot. This can even be in spite of the look or cleanliness of the foot. The non-sexual form of foot fetishism does not cause sexual arousal, but rather the pleasure is purely due to aesthetics. It has been compared to what one feels when they view an attractive part of a body such as a mouth, a pair of eyes, a nose, or any non-sexual part of the body. They appreciate the overall beauty of a particular foot.

Number 5

fingernails and lipstick fetishes Fingernails and lipstick
It's the cliche of the '80s: red lipstick and long, red-lacquered fingernails. Well, guess what? Some guys are still obsessed with that whole thing. They enjoy feeling a woman's nails running down their backs.
As well, they like kissing a woman and smudging her lipstick all over both their faces. Why? Because it gives them the feeling of having adulterated sex, i.e. sex with a prostitute.

Number 4

Braids ponytails and pig tails Braids, ponytails, pigtails
Hair, it's no surprise, was a very big fetish among guys. Blond, brunette, redheaded, braided, long, short, thick, curly, straight... you name it, they thought of it. But braids, pigtails and ponytails caught my attention. I have two theories as to why some men are into pigtails.
First, they have a preference for younger women (to say the least) and because of the illusion that pigtails and ponytails emanate, the fetishists feel as though they are fulfilling their desires.
Second, when the hair is tied up in these various ways, it could resemble a whip, to a certain extent. "Women can whip me with their hair: the ultimate turn-on." said one man from Boston. I can definitely see the latter example as working. Some women have a fetish involving no hair: bald men. They love rubbing a man's bald head whilst in a passionate embrace. Did you hear that Costanza ? You're actually preferred by women.

Number 3

Water fetish Water
Believe it or not, many variants of water were popular with both men and women. Many women declared that they enjoyed sex best when they could hear or be in running water. Whether it be rain, the shower or even an opened faucet -- so long as they heard water of some sort.
Although it's not exactly water, many women (and some men) absolutely obsess over thunder and lightning. "The powerful sound and the sudden flashes of light give my body a feeling of empowerment. My husband and I make plans to meet whenever we know that a storm is in effect," said a woman from Colorado.

Number 2

Golden shower fetish Golden Showers
Golden shower, also called urolagnia is a paraphilia in which sexual excitement is associated with the sight or the thought of urine or urination.I know this one doesn't sound very inviting, but it was a popular one. Some guys love to watch a woman urinate on them as a method of foreplay. Other guys like to relieve themselves on women before they can actually get down to business. Why? Well, the reason for this also deals with submission. Being peed on is somewhat degrading and if you allow someone to do it to you, then you're submitting and if you do it to someone else, then they are succumbing to you.

Number 1

Voyeurism and exhibitionism Voyeurism and exhibitionism
A lot of guys admitted that they couldn't get off with their partner unless they were watching pornography or another couple in the act. Even if they witnessed two people having sex or caught some erotic movies on television accidentally (yeah, right) when not with their partner, they had to masturbate. Only a minute amount of women admitted that they are voyeuristic to the point where they needed to see sex whilst engaging in it. Oddly enough, however, quite a few women like being watched . One woman from New Orleans said, "I make sure to open the blinds fully before I make love with my partner." you're not alone!
When you are and exhibitionism you like to show of f in public, either naked or even have sex and have people watch you. You get excited and you need it.
And there you have it; 10 common sexual fetishes among the human species. While some fetishes can be seen as more "particular" than others, most people go through phases where they obsess about a certain object, act or body part. Mental health professionals, researchers and even police officers have encountered such fetishes as sneezing, amputated limbs, hearing aids, diapers, pregnancy, defecating, tickling and furry animal costumes. So do you have a sexual fetish? Is there something that you absolutely need to achieve sexual gratification? Fetishes are highly widespread and are not abnormal in any way. Otherwise, go with what works. Everybody's got their thing. Maybe next time we will talk about my sexual fetish!
Kelly Love Live webcam show in nurse costume
This is a shot of my last webcam show on Live Free Fun where i was asked to wear a sexy nurses outfit. Does this fall under sexual fetishism? What do you think? Happy fetishing everyone!

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

How to Webcam Sex


Unofficial guide on how to webcam sex the right way!

how to webcam sex
Life is short, and nobody will disagree with that. As an interesting point, no-one can be certain that the sun will even come up tomorrow, so what's the point of living a life sheltered from diverse experiences while we all know that they can bring us pleasure without the pain, yes I'm talking about webcam sex.
 There are plenty of things that everybody anonymously feels like trying but most will back off for one reason or another. One of such things is webcam sex chat. When I made a decision to become a webcam model, I learned many things on my adventure which I think might be used as guidelines for those that are going through with it for the 1st time.

The first thing you need to do is look around the internet for the diverse sites at your disposal to simply see what options are open to you. There are numerous credible websites out there, but personally I chose livefreefun not only for the clientele but also for the way they properly treated me and the offers they had for models and for customers. You can also visit cam4 , myfreecams, freesexchat, freecamsexposed, adultcamfriend, slutroulette, adultcamsexposed, exposedwebcams and so many more.  If you are new to webcam sex chat then this would be the very best way to get you started as it's possible to get a preview of what you can expect from a private show with the performer of your preference, ME !

What is Cyber Sex

Cybersex, also called computer sex, Internet sex, netsex, mudsex, TinySex and, colloquially, cybering or conversex is a virtual sex encounter in which two or more persons connected remotely via computer network send each other sexually explicit messages describing a sexual experience. In one form, this fantasy sex is accomplished by the participants describing their actions and responding to their chat partners in a mostly written form designed to stimulate their own sexual feelings and fantasies. You can find almost everything you want and need to know about the history, the uses and the advantages of cybersex in this article of wikipedia.
LA FILLE A PAPA - PEAKAFELLER
Despite the prejudice that many people have, Cybersex and webcam chatting arent that new. They have been around for quite some time now and the idea of it has been used in a few older movies like this scene in Lawnmower Man or even the 2002 movie Simone starring Al Pacino. Even music video's like this one " LA FILLE A PAPA" by Peakafeller,  have been using the concept, making it sexy and using it to their advantage !
If your still wondering what a sex webcam chat looks like you can visit the chat sites I mentionned above or you can check out this video which gives you a general idea of how a webcam sex chat can go about.
Some of you might think that cyber sex is not for you because you are afraid and do not know what to expect. Thats the fun of it :) Its new and exciting and really naughty if you want it to be ! There is something for every taste, you can find couples, solo girls, lesbians, gays and you can also satisfy most fetishes and desires if you can find the right person. That is why it is important to search and ask. Don't be afraid to share what it is you want, you can then utilise your time on the chat to bring you the most pleasure possible.
For those of you who havent experienced the joy of cyber sex yet here are a few simple guidelines and advice to get you on your way to the new world of virtual sex.

Do not be Fearful of Being New

What you want to realize is that we (models) are there to please you and pretty much do what you ask us to within reasonable bounds. You should not feel guilty or shameful as most do when they confess that they are new to this entire thing. In fact, it'd be better if you do that because whoever you'll be talking with is certain to take your hand and lead you through the process, to help narrow down your preferences. Most girls have an amazing range of things they can do, so it might be sensible to ask them about things which you are interested in seeing to reduce the time it uses for you to make a choice.

Your Many Options

A webcam sex chat girl can do many things, potentially more than you were expecting. You might for example ask for the classic striptease dance performed by a single girl, or instead you might request some girl-on-girl action with toys, bondage, and maybe even some fantasy role-play. Like mentioned before, the list of things girls can do is pretty in depth, so maybe it would be an excellent idea to make your choices before going into talk. Most models have a good profile description with their likes and dislikes and or their kinky attributes so choice is yours!

Behaving Correctly

This is a big factor and will go a good distance toward making the show more pleasurable. Don't remind the performer that you are paying by the minute, and remember to use courteous expressions like "could you", "please", or "would you kindly" for instance. Desist from giving orders unless you have established with the chat girl that it actually turns you on and you aren't a jerk.
Don't ask a girl to cyber with you while you're a free guest. Not only can she not know if you are the legal age, you cannot expect her to do something she gets paid for, for free.

Don't fall in love

Kelly Love Dont fall in love with a cam girl
This a simple yet important rule. Do not fall in love with a webcam model. Models are models. Most of the time, they do this for a living and some of them are real good at it too! Dont get caught up in the fantasy to a point where your reality is her. There are so many beautiful models to choose from with so many different personalities.No one is stopping you from having your favorites (hope i will be one of them!) just make sure your favorite isnt tearing you away from all the other possibilities!

Webcam Fails

Being a model isn't always a piece of cake! Once in a while a model will screw up and when she does, if one of her fans is online and fast to video capture, a video of her/his and her/his fail will be online in a matter of minutes. Ive seen some models fall asleep while chatting, drink too much, dance and fall off the bed or even just simply leave with the camera still streaming. So many possibilities for a webcam chat to go wrong, here are a few examples :
Sexy Webcam Fail
WEBCAM FAIL EPIC
TOP3 : Girls caught on Webcam Fail
EPIC CAM GIRL CRYING
and of course one of my favorites :
Web cam fail Tits crashed

As a Model

So you think you want to be a webcam model like me? Every webcam site has a registration zone. Some sites are very demanding and some less, but you will have to sign up with your real identity which of course will be hidden for no eyes to see besides yours and the their administration. If you want to be a Live free fun model like me, you can sign up directly on their website in the become a model zone. You can choose to be a model on any site you desire, just make sure you make the right choice the first time because sometimes the process might take a little while.

So now you know the basics and know how to webcam sex like a pro with the girl of your dreams, so no more excuses! Hope you join me on my adventure as a webcam girl and I want you love me so much that you come back to me for more and more ;)
Chat naughty with me here and let me show you a great time!
Kelly Love
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